German gynecologist Ernst Gräfenberg, was the first modern scientist to identify the erotic potential of the urethral sponge, in 1950. However, it was not until 1980 when doctors John D. Perry and Beverly Whipple showed a film of a female ejaculating to the SSSS (Society for the Scientific Study of Sex), that the medical community accepted that females can ejaculate.

"This ejaculation can accompany orgasm or simply be part of arousal. Ejaculation and orgasm are two distinct physiological phenomena in both women and men. Female ejaculation has been around as long as females have been around. Until recently, however, medical literature dismissed anecdotal evidence, suggesting that instead ejaculation was urinary incontinence..."-The Good Vibrations Guide to Sex, Cathy Winks and Anne Semans

The G Spot (Grafenberg spot) is the small rough patch (urethral sponge) located on the roof of the Vagina between the hymen opening and the cervix. It is assumed that the G spot is either a bundle of nerves coming from the clitoris or a gland or series of glands that produces lubrication. It is comparable to the prostate gland in men.

With continued stimulation, a fluid (ejaculate) is produced in the gland and through its ducts in the sponge is sometimes sprayed out of the body via the urethra. -Lesbian Sex, by JoAnn Loulan.

Although the ejaculate comes from the urethra, the same place females pee from, it is not urine. It is normally impossible to pee during an orgasm. The pubococcygeus muscle contracts during orgasm which prevents the bladder from discharging. It's still not completely clear what makes up female ejaculate. In some women, this fluid is similar to urine — but it's not urine. In other women, the fluid is more similar to the fluid produced by the prostate in men. The fluid can be clear to milky in color, from thick to as thin as water, and varies from odorless to pungent. The taste depends on the individual. And all of these characteristics can change from one occurrence to the next.

A surprising amount of fluid can be released during female ejaculation, from a few drops to two cups. Some women can “squirt” across the room. You'll probably want to place a towel on the bed. Have some K&Y Jelly or other lubrication nearby, this may take a while. The first ejaculation may take several minutes to several hours to arise. At some point additional lubrication may be necessary.

Begin slowly, with your usual foreplay. Simultaneous stimulation of the clitoris can help things along. Start by massaging the clitoris, orally, digitally, or with a vibrator, don’t forget the lube. It will be easier to locate the G Spot if the woman is first clitorally aroused. Her paraurethral glands will fill with fluid, making the G Spot easier to locate and stimulate.

Insert one or two fingers inside the vagina with the palm facing the pelvic bone. Curl your fingers up as if you're summoning someone and then move it slowly back and forth or in a circular motion. Feel for a rough area of tissue not much bigger than a coin, it may not feel rough to you. But the G Spot lies almost directly behind the clitoris. As you stroke the area the sponge will swell and the female may have a pleasurable sensation or one like she has to pee. That feeling is the first sign of impending ejaculation. The impulse not to pee will prevent ejaculation. The female should go with it, try to relax and push the fluid out. Dual stimulation of the clitoris and G Spot can get to intense or painful for some women. Although, necessary for others to achieve ejaculation. Take your cues from her on when of if you should stop the clitoral stimulation close to orgasm. The end result is very intense and very surprising. It can be much more sensational than a clitoral orgasm, especially if both the clitoris and the G Spot were being stimulated at the same time.

It’s not over yet. Females can not only have multiple orgasms, but can have multiple ejaculations. With continued manual G Spot stimulation or through intercourse a woman may cum 3 to 5 times before exhausting her supply. Entering from behind is a popular position for G Spot stimulation. Additional ejaculations may occur during intercourse. Another effective position for G Spot stimulation is having the woman lie on her back, the male partner should kneel in front so that she can place her legs over his shoulders, and proceed intercourse.

If you’ve never experienced ejaculation, masturbation is a good place to start. Some women may find it easier to relax learning to ejaculate alone. Masturbating in a warm bathtub is a great way to let go and release with no cleanup. Give yourself permission to get wet and messy, have fun. Or lay in your bed with a towel underneath you. It may be more pleasurable to use vibrators to stimulate your clitoris and G Spot, instead of your fingers. Try different pressures and strokes. If you ejaculate, great. If not, still enjoy yourself.

Whether you are trying to ejaculate alone or with a partner, make sure you have fun. Let go of the pressure to ejaculate and find out what works for you or your partner. What is important is that everyone has a good time! It may take a few tries, time, caring, and patience to achieve ejaculation.

The jury is still out on if female ejaculate can transmit disease, so be safe and consider it to be a transmission fluid.

Now the A-Spot…...give me a minute to find my flashlight.

German gynecologist Ernst Gräfenberg, was the first modern scientist to identify the erotic potential of the urethral sponge, in 1950. However, it was not until 1980 when doctors John D. Perry and Beverly Whipple showed a film of a female ejaculating to the SSSS (Society for the Scientific Study of Sex), that the medical community accepted that females can ejaculate.

"This ejaculation can accompany orgasm or simply be part of arousal. Ejaculation and orgasm are two distinct physiological phenomena in both women and men. Female ejaculation has been around as long as females have been around. Until recently, however, medical literature dismissed anecdotal evidence, suggesting that instead ejaculation was urinary incontinence..."-The Good Vibrations Guide to Sex, Cathy Winks and Anne Semans

The G Spot (Grafenberg spot) is the small rough patch (urethral sponge) located on the roof of the Vagina between the hymen opening and the cervix. It is assumed that the G spot is either a bundle of nerves coming from the clitoris or a gland or series of glands that produces lubrication. It is comparable to the prostate gland in men.

With continued stimulation, a fluid (ejaculate) is produced in the gland and through its ducts in the sponge is sometimes sprayed out of the body via the urethra. -Lesbian Sex, by JoAnn Loulan

Although the ejaculate comes from the urethra, the same place females pee from, it is not urine. It is normally impossible to pee during an orgasm. The pubococcygeus muscle contracts during orgasm which prevents the bladder from discharging. It's still not completely clear what makes up female ejaculate. In some women, this fluid is similar to urine — but it's not urine. In other women, the fluid is more similar to the fluid produced by the prostate in men. The fluid can be clear to milky in color, from thick to as thin as water, and varies from odorless to pungent. The taste depends on the individual. And all of these characteristics can change from one occurrence to the next.

A surprising amount of fluid can be released during female ejaculation, from a few drops to two cups. Some women can “squirt” across the room. You'll probably want to place a towel on the bed. Have some K&Y Jelly or other lubrication nearby, this may take a while. The first ejaculation may take several minutes to several hours to arise. At some point additional lubrication may be necessary.

Begin slowly, with your usual foreplay. Simultaneous stimulation of the clitoris can help things along. Start by massaging the clitoris, orally, digitally, or with a vibrator, don’t forget the lube. It will be easier to locate the G Spot if the woman is first clitorally aroused. Her paraurethral glands will fill with fluid, making the G Spot easier to locate and stimulate.

Insert one or two fingers inside the vagina with the palm facing the pelvic bone. Curl your fingers up as if you're summoning someone and then move it slowly back and forth or in a circular motion. Feel for a rough area of tissue not much bigger than a coin, it may not feel rough to you. But the G Spot lies almost directly behind the clitoris. As you stroke the area the sponge will swell and the female may have a pleasurable sensation or one like she has to pee. That feeling is the first sign of impending ejaculation. The impulse not to pee will prevent ejaculation. The female should go with it, try to relax and push the fluid out. Dual stimulation of the clitoris and G Spot can get to intense or painful for some women. Although, necessary for others to achieve ejaculation. Take your cues from her on when of if you should stop the clitoral stimulation close to orgasm. The end result is very intense and very surprising. It can be much more sensational than a clitoral orgasm, especially if both the clitoris and the G Spot were being stimulated at the same time.

It’s not over yet. Females can not only have multiple orgasms, but can have multiple ejaculations. With continued manual G Spot stimulation or through intercourse a woman may cum 3 to 5 times before exhausting her supply. Entering from behind is a popular position for G Spot stimulation. Additional ejaculations may occur during intercourse. Another effective position for G Spot stimulation is having the woman lie on her back, the male partner should kneel in front so that she can place her legs over his shoulders, and proceed intercourse.

If you’ve never experienced ejaculation, masturbation is a good place to start. Some women may find it easier to relax learning to ejaculate alone. Masturbating in a warm bathtub is a great way to let go and release with no cleanup. Give yourself permission to get wet and messy, have fun. Or lay in your bed with a towel underneath you. It may be more pleasurable to use vibrators to stimulate your clitoris and G Spot, instead of your fingers. Try different pressures and strokes. If you ejaculate, great. If not, still enjoy yourself.

Whether you are trying to ejaculate alone or with a partner, make sure you have fun. Let go of the pressure to ejaculate and find out what works for you or your partner. What is important is that everyone has a good time! It may take a few tries, time, caring, and patience to achieve ejaculation.

The jury is still out on if female ejaculate can transmit disease, so be safe and consider it to be a transmission fluid.

Now the A-Spot…...give me a minute to find my flashlight.