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Written by Juanita Harris
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Have you ever thought about having a threesome? Here are a few quick tips to safely and successfully turn this fantasy into a reality.
One major concern when it comes to deciding whether or not to have a “ménage á troi,” is the fact that viruses and bacterium can be easily spread from person to person. Another concern is that engaging in a threesome with your partner could jeopardize your relationship. Here is a helpful little list of rules that may make it easier for you to decide whether or not to pursue this much-desired sexual fantasy.
Rule 1: Talk It Out
If you are already in a relationship, and you want your current partner to participate in a threesome with you, make sure you talk about it first. Have an open and honest discussion. Talk about how you would feel about engaging in a threesome together. Would there be any feelings of jealousy, resentment, or regret? How will you or you partner feel afterwards? How will you choose the third person? Will you go with someone you already know, or meet someone new? Try to discuss everything as thoroughly as possible and be truthful with each other.
Rule 2: Lay Down the Verdict
Once you and your partner have discussed the possibility of having a threesome, make a decision together. You either will or you won’t. Don’t be angry with your partner if they choose not to participate. When you have found your third partner, make sure that all three parties are in complete agreement and that all three want to participate.
Rule 3: Play it Safe, or Don’t Play at All
Make sure all parties have discussed safe sex. Make sure it is very clear that you will not engage in sexual play unless it is safe. There should be no disagreements about this. All parties should want to protect their own health.
Rule 4: Condoms Rule
Use a condom every time you have sexual intercourse. Use a condom when having vaginal and anal sex. Never use a condom more than once. Do not use the same condom with more than one partner. After having intercourse with one partner, take off the condom and use a new one.
Rule 5: Bring Your Barriers
Usually, a threesome involves oral sex by some or all partners. Make sure you use protection when performing or receiving oral sex. There are a variety of flavored condoms and lubricants for performing oral sex on a male partner. When performing oral sex on the vagina or anus, be sure to use a Dental Dam. Remember to use only one side of the Dental Dam. You can order these products online, or buy them from a drug store or sex toy store.
Now that you have read over these simple rules, I hope that it will help you in making a healthy and happy decision. Good luck!
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